Tenzin Gyatso, the 14th Dalai Lama, suggests that the secret to happiness is to “want what you have.” That very reasonable, stress-reducing practice damps down the unfulfilled cravings which can lead directly to dissatisfaction and unhappiness. But those cravings which, when frustrated, can make you unhappy, can also — when properly channeled — lead towards action which creates progress.

There’s another way - the unreasonable way. Being unreasonable, you simply want what you want, and figure out how to go get it. By gaining clarity over what you want, and asserting that one way or another you will be, have or do that very thing, and not giving up until you get it — you make something happen. That’s the realm of invention, the realm of creation, the realm of leadership: wanting what you want.